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The other measured love attitudes are Eros, Ludus, Storge, Pragma and Agape.
Mania is derived from the Ancient Greek term μανία, meaning “mental disorder“, from which the term “manic” is derived. Manic love is flowing out of a desire to hold one’s partner in high esteem and wanting to love and be loved in this way, seeing specialness in the interaction. This type of love tends to lead a partner into a type of madness and obsessiveness.
What is Mania?
Manic lovers speak of their partners with possessives and superlatives, and they feel that they “need” their partners. Often, manic individuals are attracted to those with low self-esteem and a weak self-concept. This kind of love is expressed as a rescue or value reinforcement. Manic lovers value finding a partner through chance without prior knowledge of their financial status, education, background, or personality traits. Insufficient expression of Manic love by one’s partner can cause one to perceive the partner as aloof, materialistic, and detached. In excess, mania becomes obsession or codependency, and obsessed manic lovers can thus come across as being very possessive and jealous. One example from real life can be found in the case of John Hinckley, Jr., an individual suffering from mental illness, who attempted to assassinate the incumbent US President Ronald Reagan due to a delusion that this would prompt the actress Jodie Foster to reciprocate his obsessive love finally.
You have not chosen one another, but I have chosen you for one another.
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Mania recognizable traits
A person with a high level of Mania attitude towards love:
- Anxiety about falling in love, with expectations of pain
- Quickly becoming overwhelmed by thoughts of one’s partner
- Forcing a partner into showing affection and emotion
- Easily frustrated and does not enjoy sexual intimacy
- Possessiveness and jealousy
Mania cultural examples
Extreme examples of mania in popular culture include yandere anime and manga characters. Additionally, Manic love is a central theme in the films Endless Love, Fatal Attraction, Misery, Play Misty for Me, Swimfan, and Taxi Driver.
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References
-  Sternberg, Robert. The Psychology of Love. Yale University Press. p. 51.
- Â Chao, Y. S. (2012). Intercultural Communications: Impacts on marriage and family relationships. WestBow Press.
-  Lee, John A. Colours of Life: An Exploration of the Ways of Loving. new press. p. 156.